Less Relationship Goals, More Self Goals

#SelfGoals Putting too much of your happiness in anyone other than yourself is a big mistake. Basing self-worth on whether we are ‘relationship goals’ or how many friends we have is not the best way of thinking. It is actually kind of silly to think that either of those things actually define who you are a person. Yeah, I used to be so guilty of that because I would go on social media and see all these posts of people in relationships or hanging out with their friends and I thought I had to have that to be happy. Instead of reminding myself how lucky I was to have myself and those that were in my life. I just think it is silly to wait for someone to achieve goals with when we should be proactive and accomplish them on our own, after all, we are totally capable of taking basic PSL pics […]

I feel bad for the people who don’t know how to be alone

I feel bad for the people who don’t know how to be alone. I should know because I used to be one of those people. Being alone takes a lot of self-love. It takes being able to enjoy a movie without someone by your side, it means being able to go out to dinner and not feel weird when people give you strange looks because there isn’t someone across from you. Being truly alone and enjoying it is so so freeing. It makes you realize that you are more than enough and that you never need anyone to be happy. Although I have not yet accomplished that complete feeling of self-love, I am definitely working on it. Something easy to forget is how enjoyable solitude can be, how chilling by yourself one night can actually be good for you and might actually teach you a few things about life! Just think, […]

How I really feel about hookup culture

I am not the kind of girl who just wants to casually hookup, and that’s okay! As a college woman, I have often found myself feeling bad for lack of having experienced a one-night stand. I always felt that I was missing out on the college experience, until I realized that having fun with my friends during a night out instead of leaving them to hookup is so much better. Now of course, if you are someone who likes to hookup then that’s cool too! Own that shit and don’t let anyone make you feel bad for it. But this is for the girls (and guys) who feel like they are missing out on something because they don’t want to have casual sex. I always believe in doing whatever you want, whenever you want. You only have a certain amount of time in life to enjoy freedom so you might […]