I feel bad for the people who don’t know how to be alone

I feel bad for the people who don’t know how to be alone. I should know because I used to be one of those people. Being alone takes a lot of self-love. It takes being able to enjoy a movie without someone by your side, it means being able to go out to dinner and not feel weird when people give you strange looks because there isn’t someone across from you. Being truly alone and enjoying it is so so freeing. It makes you realize that you are more than enough and that you never need anyone to be happy. Although I have not yet accomplished that complete feeling of self-love, I am definitely working on it. Something easy to forget is how enjoyable solitude can be, how chilling by yourself one night can actually be good for you and might actually teach you a few things about life! Just think, […]

How I really feel about hookup culture

I am not the kind of girl who just wants to casually hookup, and that’s okay! As a college woman, I have often found myself feeling bad for lack of having experienced a one-night stand. I always felt that I was missing out on the college experience, until I realized that having fun with my friends during a night out instead of leaving them to hookup is so much better. Now of course, if you are someone who likes to hookup then that’s cool too! Own that shit and don’t let anyone make you feel bad for it. But this is for the girls (and guys) who feel like they are missing out on something because they don’t want to have casual sex. I always believe in doing whatever you want, whenever you want. You only have a certain amount of time in life to enjoy freedom so you might […]